A grateful heart is a virtue harvested late in life. We are all born into this world as a baby, if we don’t get fed on time, we simply act up with a nasty cry. We take all the love and care from our parents for granted, but we must grow up from there. Oftentimes it is after we leave home that we begin to feel home sick, and the voice of our parents begin to sound sweet to our ears. We are all like the prodigal son that after we leave home and wasted away all our inheritance, we begin to miss daddy. It is only after a prodigal son returns home, he would discover the amazing love of the father. (Lk. 15:11-32) If we must leave home first in order to appreciate the love of parents, how far do we have to go in order to appreciate the much greater love of God?
China does not celebrate Thanksgiving. I had my first Thanksgiving after I came to the States. Yet we Chinese do love to give thanks and are adamant in returning favors. There is a saying in China: For every drop of favor you received, return it with a running brook. For all the help and kindness we received in our time of need, we mark down as debts. We make sure to pay back in full to our debtors. If a benefactor has passed away, or simply disappears, then we are relieved from the debt. This explains why there are always some ungrateful people around. They purposely forget the favor they have received, so that they do not have to pay back a dime. These ungrateful people are despised everywhere, but there is another type of people of similar standing. These are those who walk around and assert everyone that they always repay favors and owe nothing to nobody. People who make such bold claim must keep a private log that records each transaction he receives and pays out, and he is confident that his account would always stay in black. For anyone who can sincerely make such a boast, he is still ignorant and has not grown up yet. Meng Jiao, a poet from Tang dynasty, wrote about a mother’s love for her son in The Wandering Son’s Song, “Who says mine heart like a blade of grass, Could repay her love’s gentle beams of spring sun?” Even if we only count the love and kindness received from other people, everyone in this world would be deep in debt and no one can ever pay back in full. I do not know whether China has produced more ungrateful sons than other cultures, but I am quite sure that Chinese culture is a champion in the tug-of-war of favor-returning game. As for those general blessings lack of a specific benefactor, such as the passing of four seasons, the annual harvest, our flourish family, and even our eating and drinking and merry times, we are slow to investigate, and in fact convenient to forget for the benefit of receiving them without pay. Therefore, China does not celebrate Thanksgiving even to this day!
Man must leave home first in order to grow up. It was after I left China I learned to thank God. The Psalmist says, Know that the LORD, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture. (Ps. 100:3 ESV) Our habitable little planet Earth that we call home is the pasture we received from God. Just as the famous poem goes, “Why can’t I tell the true shape of Lu-shan? Because I myself am in the mountain.” Yet there is no need for us to leave our home planet in space shuttle in order to appreciate the love of God for humanity. For God has sent His Son from heaven down to earth, so that through Him we may perceive and receive His wonderful love, which surpasses all human love combined. We neither deserve nor are able to pay back this love. We can only respond with a forever grateful heart. For us as individual, every day when we still have breath, it is a Thanksgiving Day; But for the world, the annual Thanksgiving celebration gives us an opportunity to shout out our thanksgiving to the world. There are still so many people in the world who are blind to the love of God. They need to grow up in grace and appreciate God who crowns our year with His bounty. (Ps. 65:11) The true life in God, is both verified (for existence) and measured (for maturity) by a grateful heart.
We are all ever growing in our thanksgiving to the Lord. At the very beginning, we only know how to receive and never give thanks. Then gradually we learn to be grateful for people and for circumstances. Then through Jesus Christ, we come to know the greatest benefactor in our life is the God Almighty. He generously gives us life and breath and everything we have. I have heard this complaint: Why would God be so mindful of our thanksgiving? Didn’t He even teach us to do good to others without seeking favor in return? (Mt. 6:2-3) Not to mention that such a complaint reveals a hidden ungrateful heart, and it betrays an ignorance of a greater gift God is going to give us. God has already given everyone the grace of creation and life and all the blessings necessary to sustain life. In these last days, through Jesus Christ, God gave the grace of salvation. Unlike former grace, this time only those who believe would receive such grace with a grateful heart. This is the mystery of the kingdom of heaven, For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away. (Matt. 13:12 ESV) This true life in God has an amazing growth chart: It either keeps growing, all the way to infinity, that is called eternal life; or it keeps shrinking, all the way to nothing, that is called eternal death. There is no other curve. When this amazing new life projects unto a person, it shows up in a grateful heart. No wonder Apostle Paul said, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thess. 5:18 ESV) Therefore we always thank God, because He deserves, and because it is our new life!
Prayer: O Lord! Thank you for bringing us out of nothing and for saving us from sin and give us eternal life! We will enter your gates with thanksgiving and your courts with praise! We will give thanks to you and bless your name forever!